Thursday, November 22, 2012 8:58 PM

Life's Moving Too Fast To Enjoy. Know It, Slow It.

♥On the way out, in the bus, all i see is people sleeping. it's early in the morning and the bus and train is packed with people, going to work and school. some are sleeping, some are using their phones, and some are just stuck in the middle doing nothing. people wake up to do the same stuffs everyday, work or school, not knowing that actually time is silently passing us by.

have you ever thought about things, like when was the last time you had fun? other than a short lunch break or dinner with friends. or is it that monday to friday is just working and going back home watching some shows and sleep, waking up to repeat this ridiculous routine. or everyday ending school late and going back home to rush projects and study for tests and even have to spend weekends doing school related stuffs.

life is short. time gone will never get back. yes, studying and working is a must but you should also take some time to give yourself a break. you might not feel it (or you do) but your body will feel more tired than you. spend some time going to the beach with some friends, enjoying the warmth of the sun on your skin, the cool breeze blowing in your face, feeling relax. or spend some time watching comedies that would really make you laugh.

life is really moving faster than you know. and when you realised it, christmas is coming. and you thought to yourself what have you done this year, other than work or study? when was the last time you enjoyed yourself? make a note to yourself to have a break once awhile, even if it's just half a day.

Wednesday, October 31, 2012 4:53 PM

Everyone Deserves Happiness

♥Happiness is just like bubbles. It wont last long. It's beautiful but it will burst sooner or later.

life seems to be a never ending path. You can work all your life just to earn money to live in a big house, have a nice car and for other materialistic stuffs. But after you have all these, you would still want more. So, you work even harder to get promoted. Do you realise that this is a never ending cycle?

If you dont have all the nice dresses, killer heels, you'd be judged. so you work hard to get the things to doll up. but do you realise, no matter how well you doll up, or what brand are you wearing, you'll be judged anyway. why even care in the first place?

but, life does have an end. when you're near it, you might think back and wonder why did you even buy the stuffs you bought. why did you care so much about what others think. by then you'll realise that everything doesnt really matter. what matters is that at some point, you're happy. and now that you realise it, being happy is what matters most. you might not have much time and you might regret some things, but at least you have today to start be yourself, be happy.

have a drink, take a break, live a life. make your own bubble. be happy.

tomorrow will be a better day. tomorrow is not guaranteed. stop pushing things to tomorrow.

the next minute will make today a better day.

Tuesday, August 28, 2012 7:02 PM

Nobody Can Help You If You Dont Want To Help Yourself

♥as i've said, nothing lasts forever. You wont be hungry forever, you wont be full forever. You wont be awake forever, you wont be sleepy forever. You wont be happy forever, but you wont be sad forever.

as friends or family members, people can say a lot of things to help you. quotes, stories, whatever. But if you dont help yourself by thinking positively about things, nobody can help you.

yes, most of the times you might feel sad. But there are times that you enjoy yourself. even if for a moment only. instead of thinking sadness is permanent, and the happiness is short, you can think that at least you enjoyed that moment. that 60seconds of happiness cuts away 60seconds of your unhappiness away. today you're able to laugh and enjoy yourself for 1minute. who knows tomorrow you might be able to enjoy even longer?

if you think that things are falling apart, try to save it. dont keep thinking that what you do will not be of any use. If you keep thinking and dont do, it will be useless. If you do, at least you wont regret. years later, you wont think that you should have done this or that. you would think that at least you tried. sometimes, people have to try very hard just to get very little. But at least they tried.

no matter what happens, cherish life. things may be hard but you wouldnt know how good your life is compared to others. if you dont wanna live, think of how your loved ones will feel if you left. if they dont like you, they wouldnt be supporting you.

all i can say is to think positive. If you keep thinking negatively, all you're gonna do is fall deeper than you already are. things are bad but it will get better.

Monday, August 6, 2012 3:38 PM

Detach

♥When you're hurting , feel it . let it go all the way in , cry out . let it all out . after that , detach . let it go and move on .

sometimes , it's a blessing to be hurt . it makes you stronger . and , it lets you know that you're alive . cry out , let it out . just need to stand back up after that .

Wednesday, July 25, 2012 7:10 PM

'It's Not About What You Lose, It's About What You Still Have That Matters'

♥'When You Open Up To Love, You Must Be Open Up To Getting Hurt As Well'

nobody is perfect, whether or not you love him/her. there's no such thing as being perfect. everyone is bound to be disappointed by the person they love. but no matter what, you still love the person.

but, if you've broken up, you have to find ways to move on. despite the other party giving some mixed signals. dont think too much and try to move on. when broken up, it's final. mixed signals or reasons dont matter much. the person should not be considered again. If the person comes back, love yourself more to not allowing him/her to.

it's hard and it's gonna hurt. remember, it's like holding a cactus. the longer you hold it, the longer you'll feel the pain. find a way to let go, end the pain. look forward to the next person and fall in love all over again.

yes, you'll be afraid. afraid of it not lasting, afraid of the person leaving, afraid of the hurt. but, if you think this way, you'll not be happy. with fear, you wont feel the happiness . that warm, bubbly feeling inside. learnt to let go fully and love again. who knows, the next one is gonna be the right one and will last.

when you're out of a relationship, friends and family will be by you. Dont push them away by the hatred of the person and yourself. when things get bad, it's best to have them around rather than being alone. talk to them, you're not alone. but do not vent out your emotions, anger or hatred, on them. they might not show it, or show it the wrong way, but they are there. open up to them. remember, you are not alone. not before your relationship started and wont end after your relationship ended. :)

Sunday, July 22, 2012 3:03 AM

'People Who Suffers The Most Are Those Who Do Not Know What They Really Want'

♥bet a lot of people have given much thought about what they wanna do in life. not many knows, but some do.

everyone needs to have a goal in life. With a goal, you'll be motivated. You'll look forward to waking up the next day and work hard to achieve it. if you dont, you wont have the will to work hard. you'll be dragging yourself out of bed daily, trying to get by the day, just to get back after school or work to use the computer or watch television and sleep.

if you work hard and achieve your goals (for short term goals), you'll be happy. try to find what you wanna do in life. out of your comfort zone for adventurous people, or some others f&b or business. it wont always be smooth on your way to achieving your goals, but never give up. if you give up, you'll really fail. never give up and you're halfway there. things get worse, life gets hard. at the same time, you get stronger.
end of everything, things will get better. tmrw will be better . :D

Saturday, June 30, 2012 8:38 PM

Think Positive

♥been lazy and wasnt feeling that good recently . but , i'm done now .

well , think positive . everything has something good to it . it's a matter of now or later . something might break you at the moment , like a break up or friendship stuffs , but there's always something good . after a break up , you'll be stronger and wiser . maybe you lost a close friend , but got another closer friend or a true friend .

i might delete this blog soon . i'm not that good at encouraging people .

life's short . think positive . it will lift your mood and make things better . listen to livelier songs , do what you like . just be happy . time you spend being unhappy will never be back . it'd be gone forever . do what you like and make full use of the day . we're so used to saying 'i'll do it tmrw' . but you know , tmrw is never guarenteed . just think positive and enjoy everyday as much as you can .