Wednesday, July 25, 2012 7:10 PM

'It's Not About What You Lose, It's About What You Still Have That Matters'

♥'When You Open Up To Love, You Must Be Open Up To Getting Hurt As Well'

nobody is perfect, whether or not you love him/her. there's no such thing as being perfect. everyone is bound to be disappointed by the person they love. but no matter what, you still love the person.

but, if you've broken up, you have to find ways to move on. despite the other party giving some mixed signals. dont think too much and try to move on. when broken up, it's final. mixed signals or reasons dont matter much. the person should not be considered again. If the person comes back, love yourself more to not allowing him/her to.

it's hard and it's gonna hurt. remember, it's like holding a cactus. the longer you hold it, the longer you'll feel the pain. find a way to let go, end the pain. look forward to the next person and fall in love all over again.

yes, you'll be afraid. afraid of it not lasting, afraid of the person leaving, afraid of the hurt. but, if you think this way, you'll not be happy. with fear, you wont feel the happiness . that warm, bubbly feeling inside. learnt to let go fully and love again. who knows, the next one is gonna be the right one and will last.

when you're out of a relationship, friends and family will be by you. Dont push them away by the hatred of the person and yourself. when things get bad, it's best to have them around rather than being alone. talk to them, you're not alone. but do not vent out your emotions, anger or hatred, on them. they might not show it, or show it the wrong way, but they are there. open up to them. remember, you are not alone. not before your relationship started and wont end after your relationship ended. :)

Sunday, July 22, 2012 3:03 AM

'People Who Suffers The Most Are Those Who Do Not Know What They Really Want'

♥bet a lot of people have given much thought about what they wanna do in life. not many knows, but some do.

everyone needs to have a goal in life. With a goal, you'll be motivated. You'll look forward to waking up the next day and work hard to achieve it. if you dont, you wont have the will to work hard. you'll be dragging yourself out of bed daily, trying to get by the day, just to get back after school or work to use the computer or watch television and sleep.

if you work hard and achieve your goals (for short term goals), you'll be happy. try to find what you wanna do in life. out of your comfort zone for adventurous people, or some others f&b or business. it wont always be smooth on your way to achieving your goals, but never give up. if you give up, you'll really fail. never give up and you're halfway there. things get worse, life gets hard. at the same time, you get stronger.
end of everything, things will get better. tmrw will be better . :D